A Sip Of Manners?

Coming up – Tea and Manners with a Personalised Vintage Shopping Tour – Mt Tamborine – Qld:

With The Lindy Charm School for Girls
With The Lindy Charm School for Girls

Tailored Events:

During an indulgent afternoon tea, ladies and gentlemen will be taken through the history of afternoon tea, the art of dining and afternoon tea etiquette, a lesson on posture, self confidence, handshakes etc, speech, sitting, manners, conversation starters, body language and a look at manners for the modern man and woman.

A Fabulous Day for Mothers and Daughter/Sons, Families, Girlfriends/Friends, Hens Parties or just and intimate couple setting, we can tailor content to any setting you like.  Talk to us today about private/public or corporate events. 

A little more?

A fabulous interview with Radio National’s First Bite Program, high tea with manners: a lesson in etiquette – Listen to interview here: 


We enter an historic hotel where afternoon tea has been served everyday since the 1880s to receive a crash course in etiquette, deportment and manners.

There’s an old saying that ‘manners maketh the man’ and RN First Bite’s Michael Mackenzie was certainly taken to task over some of his behaviour when he took High Tea at the historic Windsor Hotel with his ‘dates’ Miss Chrissie and Miss Rachel.

Miss Chrissie has run a ‘charm school’ for girls aged 20-60 teaching deportment and etiquette for the last six years, and she combines that with the finer points of taking high tea in a special series of workshops in Melbourne.

Here’s a list of tips to share among your peers when eating and talking with that special someone:

  • Do respond to an invitation promptly and advise of any special dietary requirements
  • Do be suitably and smartly attired 
  • Do take a small, thoughtful gift if dining at someone’s house
  • Do switch all phones off before you arrive Do be punctual — up to 10 mins late is acceptable 
  • Do look into the eyes of your dining companions and engage enthusiastically in polite conversation 
  • Do try something different and allow your palette to be adventurous 
  • Do take care whilst eating and drinking to avoid embarrassing spillage 
  • Do find something complimentary to say Do remember your all important thank you note 
  • Do not arrive starving — have a glass of water if necessary, the growling of a hungry tummy is not appropriate background music 
  • Do not slump or swagger and remember good posture is an aid to self confidence 
  • Do not extend your little finger when holding a cup 
  • Do not slurp or eat noisily 
  • Do not gesture with your cutlery nor clink it against your crockery or teeth 
  • Do not gobble your food, but savour it and remember the time and effort that has gone into its preparation 
  • Do not eat with your mouth open nor talk with your mouth full Do not stretch across the table, pick your teeth or lick your fingers 
  • Do not place elbows on the table — remember all joints on the table will be carved! 
  • Do not monopolise the conversation nor sit in silence, but try to contribute in equal measure

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Welcome to The Lindy Charm School where we offer a wide range of styling, costuming, workshopping and corporate services. Headed by the ever-vivacious Mistress Chrissy, The Lindy Charm School is a multi-disciplinary creative events and vintage styling business driven by a rich affinity with a time before now.

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