So how do we go about it?
Well seduction involves the mind much more that the body, after all, the brain is the largest sex organ that humans have. So, first of all you need to get your mind into seduction mode.
It’s impossible to seduce someone if you’re feeling like rubbish. When you’re getting ready for an evening out you need to primp and prime your body perfectly, wear underwear, clothing and jewellery which make you feel fabulous. Confidence is one the most attractive assets you can have – so if you don’t have it fake it. Everyone feels insecure to some degree.
Try the following seduction mantra to boost you confidence before going out or if you find yourself stuck on your own and feeling down at any point in the evening.
. I am gorgeous
. I have the pick of every man in the room
. I am the ultimate lover
. My outfit is stunning
Even better if if you’re immersed in thought, you’ll look mysterious and aloof, which is always a winner when it comes to attracting men.
Another tip when you go out is to think “I wonder if there will be anyone there whom I’ll find attractive?” rather than “I wonder if anyone will find me attractive?”
Remember ladies if you’ve attended one of our Lindy Charm School workshops you have the tools to be absolutely fabulous so go out and flaunt the fabulous you.
Source: “Things a woman should know about seduction” by Emily Dubberley
